Dr. William A. Twayigize

A Murder On Boxing Day

A Memorable Christmas Day

On the Christmas Day of December 1985, my childhood friend Deogratias (Doga) and I experienced a joyous celebration at the catholic church in our neighborhood. Just months earlier, we had embarked on an unforgettable school excursion to witness gorillas in their natural habitat at Mt. Visoke and the Kalisoke Research Center. This Christmas, we were dressed in new clothes, feeling proud as kids of the village. Our parents had allowed us to use the money from selling pyrethrum to purchase the clothes we liked.

The church was adorned with European ornaments, a rare sight in our community, adding to the festive ambiance. For both the young and the elderly, visiting the catholic church on Christmas was not merely about listening to the priests, who were sometimes foreigners with heavy accents speaking our mother tongue, but rather about marveling at the exquisite decorations, including artificial stars. This special day allowed us, as kids, to have pocket money, enabling us to indulge in treats like queen cakes, candies, and Sambosas. However, amidst the joy, there was one hiccup—Doga’s new shoes were too small and painfully squeezed his toes. Nevertheless, he endured the discomfort to make an impression and savor the beauty of the day.

After a long and enchanting Christmas day, as evening approached, my best childhood friend Doga decided not to continue his journey to his parents’ home, which was three miles away from my parents’ house located at the shopping center. Instead, he opted to spend the night with us. Our bond was so strong that my home felt like his, and my parents treated him like their own child. We often had sleepovers, cherishing the chance to spend more time together. People often mistook us for siblings, but our friendship had blossomed since we first met in grade one at primary school. That Christmas night, Doga was especially tired, having endured discomfort from his small, squeezing shoes all day. So, we made a pact that the next day, on Boxing Day, we would return the shoes to the trader at Akinyanda Open Market who had sold them to us. Being our neighbor, we were at ease, knowing he recognized us and our parents, making the shoe exchange a simple task.

On the following day, which happened to be Boxing Day, Thursday, December 26, 1985, we arose in the wee hours of the morning to find a frosty chill lingering in the air, a typical sight during this time of the year, as our region had recently received copious amounts of rain around Christmas. The cold season was in full swing. In contrast to the festivities associated with Boxing Day in other parts of the world, our African culture didn’t involve the customary opening of boxes and exchanging of gifts. For us children, it was just another regular day. However, the older generation continued their celebrations, indulging in local traditional brews and savoring roasted meat, which served as an anticipatory prelude to the upcoming New Year’s Day celebrations.

Upon reaching the vibrant Akinyanda open Market, we encountered the friendly trader who had sold us the shoes the day before. His observant eyes quickly caught on to our shivering state, realizing that the early morning start and traversing through dew-drenched paths had left our shoes thoroughly soaked and our bodies cold. With warmth and kindness in his heart, he swiftly ushered us to a nearby coffee shop, urging us to indulge in as much comforting milk tea and delectable Mandazi as our hearts desired. To a child from the village, accustomed to occasional treats of sugary delights, this unexpected Christmas feast was nothing short of pure wonder, etching another precious memory into our hearts.

Nevertheless, our jubilant celebrations at the coffee shop were abruptly curtailed when a group of older folks, huddled together to ward off the chill, began to somberly share the heart-wrenching news of Dian Fossey’s passing. To them, she was affectionately known by the traditional name “Nyiramacibiri.” The shock of this devastating news reverberated through our hearts, for we could not fathom the possibility of her untimely demise, let alone her falling victim to violence, as she was genuinely adored by everyone in the neighborhood. As the news spread like wildfire among the market’s patrons, an overwhelming sense of sorrow and disbelief permeated the once lively atmosphere, leaving us all grappling with the tragic and violent nature of her death.

A Murder in the Mist

In the bustling Akinyanda open market, as the traders continued to exchange stories, the shocking details of Nyiramacibiri’s tragic demise emerged. Her cabin, once a place of tranquility, was now a scene of disarray, painting a gruesome picture of her murder. Whispers began to circulate, with hushed suspicions pointing towards a white-bearded man in his mid-30s or early 40s, known locally as “Gipanga” due to his constant companion – a large machete he carried wherever he went, and often seen accompanying Nyiramacibiri. The revelation that she had suffered fatal blunt blows to her head sent shockwaves throughout our close-knit community, where violent deaths had been almost unheard of in the Rwanda of the 1980s, until the tumultuous events of the 1990s when Tutsi rebels invaded the country.

As my friend Doga and I made our way back home that day, his new, larger shoes seemed to carry an unspoken weight of sorrow, mirroring the burden that weighed heavily on our young hearts. The news of Nyiramacibiri’s tragic death left us grappling with an array of unanswered questions, wondering why anyone would want to harm such an innocent and solitary girl.

As we reached the foot of the mountain, overlooking our humble shopping center, which was also home to my father’s house, Doga and I had to part ways. He knew a shortcut that would take him back to his home, so after bidding each other farewell, I began to descend the hill. My mind was still reeling from the overwhelming news that the kind lady who had given me the most precious gift a few months ago had met such a tragic fate. At my young age, I couldn’t comprehend how such a heinous act could happen in our peaceful and close-knit community, where even a single death could send shockwaves through our society, leaving us in profound distress.

Lost in thought, I finally arrived at our shopping center, where I saw my mother sitting outside our home with a group of ladies from our neighborhood. These women were part of the local merry-go-round initiative, with my mother serving as its chairlady. I had grown up knowing each of them, and as I approached to recount my day, they could sense the sorrow in my heart. Their faces mirrored the palpable sadness that had descended upon our community due to the untimely loss of Nyiramacibiri. Although we didn’t need to speak of it, I knew that my mother and her friends were aware of the tragedy that had befallen the Californian girl. My mother understood just how special she had been to me, especially because of the View Master gift she had given me during our school’s hiking trip to Mt. Bisoke a few months earlier.

A heavy veil of sorrow draped our entire community as we grappled with the tragic loss of Nyiramacibiri. The collective grief hung in the air, binding us together in a somber unity. Small groups of people huddled together, their faces etched with confusion and sadness, pondering the profound implications of Nyiramacibiri’s untimely death. We contemplated not only what this meant for our tight-knit community but also for the beloved mountain gorillas she had devoted her life to protecting.

Nyiramacibiri’s impact on our community went far beyond her mere presence; she brought the world of conservation to our doorstep through community TV programs. These documentaries, showcasing her travels and highlighting the challenges faced by the endangered mountain gorillas, illuminated the importance of their preservation. For decades, the California Girl had woven herself into the fabric of our community, forming connections and, at times, stirring mixed emotions. Her influence, especially on us kids, was undeniable, as she often gifted us footballs (soccer balls) and candies when we excitedly shouted her name, “Nyiramacibiri.” Her sudden absence created a void that permeated our community, casting a shadow of sadness unlike anything we had ever experienced. The cloud of sorrow that enveloped us seemed insurmountable, a testament to the profound impact she had on our lives.

Amidst those gatherings, a stifling cloud of suspicion loomed heavily in the air, its oppressive presence palpable as the entire community grappled with the haunting question of who bore responsibility for this heart-wrenching loss. One name, “Gipanga,” reverberated incessantly, a mysterious figure of European descent, distinguished by his imposing beard, who had frequently been spotted in Nyiramacibiri’s company. Locals had affixed upon him the ominous moniker of “Gipanda,” a name that carried the burden of unease, as he was often observed clutching a menacing machete, his countenance eternally etched with a scowl, seemingly estranged from the native inhabitants of these lands.

The tragic and untimely death of Nyiramacibiri had an indelible and profound impact on our community, shattering our collective spirit. She had seamlessly integrated herself into the tapestry of our lives, engaging with children in various schools and playing alongside the kids in our community. Her generous gestures, such as providing soccer balls to local schools and avidly supporting the children’s soccer matches, had endeared her to us, making her feel like one of our own. The void left by her absence weighed heavily on our hearts, and the pain was intensified by the fact that she had never experienced the joy of having her own child or adopting one. In our African context, the concept of family holds immense significance, symbolizing not just continuity but also a legacy that endures even in the face of nature’s cruelty. As we grappled with the uncertainty surrounding the future of the mountain gorillas and the fate of Virunga National Park in the weeks that followed, a profound sense of concern enveloped our thoughts, overshadowed only by the lingering grief of her loss.

After Nyiramacibiri’s tragic death, the memory of the trails she used to tread near our farms remained etched in my mind, those paths she once walked, passing by the edge of our land while we playfully shouted “Nyiramacibiri.” Those trails, once bustling with her presence, now lay silent, and there was no one to traverse them, no one to elicit the joy of echoing her name once more. The brutal murder of the Californian girl sent shockwaves through our tightly-knit society, especially among us children who had grown accustomed to seeing her and receiving her warm greetings as we attended to our fathers’ farms. Her kindness even extended to sharing candies with us, and the realization that she was now gone forever weighed heavily on our young hearts, casting a shadow of profound sadness.

What many people failed to notice or comprehend was that Nyiramacibiri’s tragic demise unfolded during a prophetic era, characterized by the presence of the “Kibeho Trios.” These were a group of high school girls attending Kibeho Catholic Secondary School in southern Rwanda who had been experiencing divine apparitions since 1982. Their profound messages and warnings echoed through the land, beseeching the Rwandan people to seek repentance, for they foretold an impending calamity that could claim the lives of millions. What added to the intrigue was that Nyiramacibiri’s death seemed to inaugurate a turbulent period in Rwanda’s history. Our nation, once regarded as the jewel of Africa and a paradise for its people, started witnessing sporadic gun-related deaths, an unprecedented phenomenon in our tranquil community. Unfortunately, the California Girl’s death on that fateful Boxing Day remains shrouded in mystery, much like her own life.

In this photograph, you can see me seated alongside my closest childhood friend, Doga, whose full name is Ntuyenabo Deogratias. This picture was taken in 1996 when we were just a few months into our stay at the Kibumba refugee camp. At that time, we were all students attending the refugee school established within the camp, a vital initiative aimed at ensuring that refugee children could continue their education despite the challenging circumstances we faced.